You must get a copy of The Success Principles: How to get from where you are to where you want to be by Jack Canfield (author of Chicken Soup for the Soul). I LOVE this book! Trust me on this one. You can also go to www.jackcanfield.com to receive a daily mentoring message which is a great addition to reading the book.
One quote from the book by Jim Rohn, “You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with”. In other words, spend time with the people you want to be like, not those that bring you down with negative thoughts and energy. Jack Canfield says, “If you want to be more successful, you have to start hanging out with more successful people”.